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Awesome Marriage Podcast

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for over 50 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40+ years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage ,14 Keys To Lasting Love, and most recently Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim will be joined once a month by his wife of 55 years, Nancy Kimberling. He will also host other great guests that will teach and encourage you as you intentionally pursue an awesome marriage. Tune in each week to hear practical advice from Dr. Kim. This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.
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Marriage, Ministry & the Mess: God in Every Season with Amie Seiffert Ep. 686 0
Jul 15, 2025

In this episode of the Awesome Marriage Podcast, Dr. Kim sits down with special guest Amie Seiffert, author, speaker, and pastor, for a rich and real conversation about enjoying and engaging with God in every season. Amie shares her journey of faith and the ups and downs of pursuing her calling while raising a family. Together, they unpack the beauty of grace, the power of humor, and the comfort found in Scripture during life’s hardest seasons. Whether you’re navigating parenting, ministry, or marriage, this episode will remind you that God is present in every season.

Episode Highlights:

  • Grace is a central theme in ministry and relationships.
  • Find opportunities to laugh together.
  • Seasons of life are temporary and ever-changing.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

This for now is not forever.

We are held by grace. 

Humor is such a way to bring things back down to earth.

I don’t want to live offended.

We have buzz words that bring each other back to reality.

If I feel overwhelmed, I learned this at therapy, I will give a number on a scale of 1-10.

It’s hard to say you need help, but it’s rewarding.

 

Couple’s Conversation Guide:

  1. How do you think grace shows up in our marriage—and where could we use more of it?

  2. Amie talked about humor being important in marriage—what are some ways we could be more intentional about laughing together?

  3. What does open communication look like for us during stressful or busy seasons? Do we need to make changes?

  4. Have you ever struggled with self-doubt in your calling or role in our family? How can I better support you in those moments?

  5. What season of life are we in right now, and how can we stay grounded in God while walking through it together?

  6. How can we better support one another in balancing our individual callings with our family life?

 

Mentioned in this Episode:

 

Built to Last: What Makes (or Breaks) a Thriving Marriage 0
Jul 8, 2025

Just when you thought you couldn’t love Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy more—this episode takes things to a whole new level. With honesty and heart, they open up about the real journey of their marriage—sharing the intentional choices, tough seasons, and deep faith that carried them through. From early challenges that could have pulled them apart to the daily decisions that drew them closer, their story reflects what’s possible when a couple chooses to build on the foundation of Christ. Their marriage is both relatable and inspiring—a powerful reminder that when God is kept first, a marriage doesn’t just survive—it thrives.

Episode Highlights:

Intentionality is key.

Marriages won't thrive naturally.

Taking ownership and openly communicating are important tools for successful marriages.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

Don’t be negative. 

I think we were in lust not in love.

I think we had to build true love in our marriage.

We’ve learned to build bit by bit.

I thought if I loved you enough everything was going to be ok.

Until you realize how much God loves you as a person you aren’t truly free to love another person.

Divorce isn’t a word in our vocabulary anymore, commitment is!

We realize now what we were missing.

Just getting married doesn’t mean you won’t feel alone. 

 

Questions for Conversation:

  1. What part of Dr. Kim and Nancy’s story felt most relatable or surprising to you? Why?

  2. Have you ever assumed love alone would be enough to fix everything? How has your view of love and commitment changed over time?

  3. Have there been moments where one (or both) of you felt alone in your marriage? What helped reconnect you—or what could help now?

  4. Is “divorce” or emotional withdrawal ever subtly present as an option in your mindset or language? What does it look like to choose commitment every day?

  5. How can you better prioritize keeping God first in your marriage this week?

  6. What’s one thing you want to be intentional about after listening to this episode—together or individually?

 

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Keeping Your Spouse First and Your Marriage Fun with Arlene Pellicane 0
Jul 1, 2025

This is the perfect episode to kick off July, as this month at Awesome Marriage we’re highlighting the importance of dating your spouse. Arlene Pellicane joins me in the studio to talk about keeping your spouse first and your marriage fun! But what does that actually look like? In the midst of life’s demands, Arlene shares practical tips and loads of wisdom to help you keep investing in your marriage and enjoying your spouse. We pray this episode encourages your marriage.

Episode Takeaways:

  • Marriage and parenting are common pain points for many people.

  • The divorce rate is down, but so is the marriage rate.

  • Men are marrying later and less frequently than in the past.

  • Gray divorce is on the rise, with more older couples divorcing.

  • Couples often stay together for the kids but drift apart afterward.

  • Awareness of vulnerability in marriage is crucial.

  • Gratitude can transform how you view your spouse.

  • Serving your spouse should be unconditional, regardless of their actions.

  • Fun is essential in maintaining a healthy marriage.

  • Finding common interests can strengthen the bond between spouses. Be creative in finding fun activities together.

  • Family meals are essential for daily connection.

  • Prioritizing your spouse can enhance the marriage.

  • It's important to forgive quickly in a marriage.

  • Express gratitude for your spouse regularly.

  • Shared experiences create lasting memories.

  • Nurturing the marriage benefits the entire family.

  • Every day together is a gift to cherish.

  • The book 'Making Marriage Easier' offers practical insights.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

  • "It's never too late to turn that around."

  • "We want to avoid drifting apart."

  • "Play by God's rules in your marriage."

  • "Who can out-serve the other?"

  • "I will try it, even if I'm not good at it."

  • "What can we do all together?"

  • "You don't have to do it like everyone else."

  • "It blesses your kids."

  • "Every day is a gift that we have together."

 

Questions for Conversation:

  1. What practical steps can you take this week to put your marriage first, even amidst busy schedules and family demands?

  2. How can you create more opportunities for fun and laughter with your spouse, making your relationship a joyful priority?

  3. In what ways can prioritizing your spouse help you both feel more connected and valued in your daily life?

  4. What new or creative activities can you plan together to bring more excitement and shared enjoyment into your marriage?

 

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Closer Still: Deepening Your Friendship with God with Special Guest, Faith Eury Cho Ep. 683 0
Jun 24, 2025

What does it really mean to be friends with God—and how can that friendship fill our lives with lasting joy? In this uplifting episode, we talk with Faith about how intimacy with God shifts our desires, strengthens our faith, and sustains us through hardship. We also explore how to take that next step into deeper friendship with Him, and what it practically looks like to live each day knowing God as both Father and Friend. Plus, don’t miss details on our journal giveaway over on Instagram @awesome_marriage!

Episode Highlights:

  • Friendship with God sparks joy in our lives.

  • Joy is referenced over 400 times in scripture.

  • Our default mode is to find joy in God's presence.

  • Joy is not just a moment but a continuous state.

  • The fall of humankind began when joy was sought outside of God.

  • Joy is deeper than happiness; it encompasses peace and confidence.

  • Every season of life has its own joy to discover.

  • Jesus is the source of our completion and joy. Enjoying the Holy Spirit alters your desires.

  • Acknowledging God in daily life fosters intimacy.

  • Practicing the presence of God can be done in all activities.

  • Friendship with God is accessible through salvation.

Questions for Reflection:

  • How would you describe your current friendship with God?
  • What moments in your life have made you feel closest to God? What did those times have in common?
  • What spiritual disciplines or habits help you feel more connected to God on a daily basis?
  • Are there any areas where you feel distant from God right now? What might be contributing to that?
  • Are there any distractions or habits you might need to let go of to prioritize friendship with God?

Quotes from Today’s Episode:

  • "We can be friends with God."

  • "Jesus is where my completion is."

  • "He does the heart work."

  • "Acknowledge Him in all your ways."

  • "God's got answers for all of us."


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Help! My Spouse Can’t Leave Work at Work 0
Jun 17, 2025

In today’s episode, we explore how constant connectivity and work stress can quietly invade our marriages. When work becomes all-consuming, it can turn into an idol and create emotional distance between spouses. We discuss why learning to leave work at work is a spiritual discipline and how true support means walking alongside your spouse, not having all the answers. You’ll hear practical wisdom on setting boundaries together, sharing burdens, and seeking counsel early. Marriage is about more than success—it’s about not facing struggles alone.

 

Episode Highlights: 

  • Technology has blurred our boundaries between work and home. 
  • Learning to leave work at work is a spiritual discipline.
  • Being supportive doesn’t mean you have to all the answers- it means you’re walking alongside your spouse.
  • The pace of modern culture doesn’t allow proper mental closure.

 

Quotes from Today’s Episodes:

  • A lot of people in the workplace feel the expectation to be available 24/7/365
  • Work problems begin to feel like personal problems- like they need immediate attention.
  • Our ultimate identity is not in our professional performance. 
  • Work stress can be like an invisible third person in your marriage.
  • When work becomes all consuming it shifts into an idol.
  • Our marriages are about something bigger than career success.
  • Marriage is about sharing burdens- not just the good stuff. 
  • Trying to handle stress alone creates distance in the marriage.
  • There’s something spiritually significant about not facing struggles alone. 
  • The most effective boundaries are the ones you create together.
  • They need to know your concern comes from a place of care not criticism.
  • The earlier you involve wise counsel the more effectively you can address issues before they become entrenched patterns. 



Questions for Discussion:

  • Do you currently have any transitional rituals in place? If not, what rituals can the two of you agree to implement? 
  • Do you currently implement any device free times/ zones?
  • Are you using technology to connect with your spouse in healthy ways? (encouraging text, midday phone call)

 

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Understanding 'Needy' Husbands: What Do They Truly Want? | Ep. 667 0
Mar 11, 2025

Wives, have you felt that your husband expects too much from you? Husbands, have you checked whether your expectations are realistic? 

Expectations of our spouse can be a difficult topic, and they are a really frequent source of marriage tension. That’s why today, we want to help break down misunderstandings around spouse expectations today, so that you can experience better connection and more joy in your marriage. Don’t let expectations trip your marriage up. Listen today and learn to deal with the wants and needs in your marriage. 

We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.

Episode highlights include: 

  • Unvoiced expectations in marriage can lead to tension.

  • Communication is key to understanding each other's needs.

  • Wives should express their feelings of being drained.

  • Finding time for connection is essential for couples.

  • Respect and appreciation are crucial for husbands.

  • Physical affection is important beyond sexual intimacy.

  • Teamwork in parenting strengthens the marriage bond.

  • Articulating needs can help avoid misunderstandings.

  • Navigating challenges together fosters a stronger partnership. It's crucial to express needs and expectations in marriage.

  • Vulnerability can be challenging, especially for men.

  • Regular communication opportunities can help clarify needs.

  • Listening without trying to “fix it” is essential in relationships.

  • Understanding each other's perspectives fosters compassion.

  • Setting boundaries can enhance emotional support.

  • Counseling can provide valuable tools for communication.

  • Feeling overwhelmed is a signal for change, not failure.

  • Asking good questions can open up important conversations.

  • Investing in support can rejuvenate a marriage.

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

Couples Conversation Guide: 

Main takeaway: You can experience better connection and intimacy by learning how to navigate the misunderstandings around expectations.

Questions to Discuss: 

  1. Dr. Kim talked about the importance of framing your spouse in a positive way, are there places where you are negatively framing your spouse's wants or needs?

  2. What boundary could you set today so that you could better meet a need for your spouse?

  3. Are you a safe place for your spouse to voice the expectations that have for your marriage?

 

QUOTES 

  • God didn’t give your husband maternal instinct and that’s ok. He’s a man and that’s actually a good thing for your children to experience.

  • Being overwhelmed as a woman doesn't make you a bad spouse. It’s a signal that something needs to change.

  • If you’re going to frame your spouse as the problem it’s not going to go well. If you frame your spouse as your teammate then you can work together and that’s really important.

  • Love and respect are something that husbands and men are designed to need. 

  • If you’re stretching yourself way beyond your capacity then that’s where the negative things start to happen.

  • Wives, you don’t want your husband going to someone else for emotional support. You want him to go to you. 

 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  

 

Tips to Master Work - Life Balance in Your Marriage In The Home | Ep. 596 0
Feb 13, 2024

Work - life balance is not limited to the workplace: It’s also the work of running a home, and it’s a challenge for most couples to share this load well. Today Dr. Kim is sharing some of his best tips for finding balance in the home. 

The struggle to find work - life balance does not end when you get home in the evening. Taking care of a home and family is a huge portion of our workload that you can’t ignore. But you can find ways to handle it well – TOGETHER!

We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.

 

Episode highlights include:  

  • Tips for spouses who work outside the home 

  • Tips for those who work from home 

  • Tips for stay-at-home parents 

  • Signs you & your spouse need to work toward better balance 

  • The need for boundaries to help with balance; how to work on them together

  • What to do if you get stuck, or if you’ve tried to address things and it’s not working

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

QUOTES

  • Resolving conflict doesn’t have to be a bad thing. It takes work, but when you talk and listen well, you’ll find that most things, you can resolve. - Dr. Kim Kimberling 

  • At the end of your life,  you’re not going to look back and say, “I wish I’d looked at my phone a few more times.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  

  • If you get stuck, it’s ok to get help.  - Dr. Kim Kimberling

  • The things that matter work themselves out in the very small details of life. - Lindsay Few

  • Maybe you think everyone else is doing it all, so you’re trying to do it all. I don’t think that’s realistic or healthy. - Lindsay Few 

  • It’s easy to fall in those traps and not really know that you’ve even fallen into them. - Dr. Kim Kimberling 

  • We have to make sure we’re saying what we mean and what we need instead of just hoping our spouse catches the hint. - Lindsay few 

 

QUESTIONS FOR YOU

  • Is the workload in your home balanced?  

  • Do you have a mentor couple in your life? 

  • Are your boundaries with tech (screentime, phones) working well? 

  • Talk with your spouse and rate how you’re doing with work / life balance together, on a scale of 1-10? 

 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 

 

Worth Repeating | Be Your Authentic Self in a Superficial World With Special Guest Sam Acho 0
Jul 11, 2023

We’re on our annual summer break from the podcast, and during the break we love to re-air favorite past episodes. Today we’re sharing Dr. Kim’s conversation with former NFL linebacker Sam Acho, a speaker, podcaster, and humanitarian. They had an honest and encouraging conversation about what holds us back from being authentic and how to break through fears and be more real. 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

Episode highlights include: 

  • The breakthrough that first helped Sam to stop hiding & pretending he was ok 

  • Why the closest relationships can also be the places we feel the most insecure

  • Why the small steps we take to be real are actually big!

  • Steps to take when you feel you’re not living in authenticity 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

 

5 Ways to Make It To Your 50th Anniversary | Ep. 565 0
Jul 4, 2023

Marriage is more of a marathon than a sprint, and to go the distance, it definitely helps to learn from someone who has gone before. Who better to learn from than Dr. Kim? He and Nancy are more than 50 years into marriage, and continue to have so much fun together. It’s not always easy, but it’s definitely worth it! Today Dr. Kim shares his top 5 ways to build a marriage you love that will stand the test of time. 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Practically speaking, how do you put “God first, spouse second”? 

  • Is the goal to just stay together - or to keep making the marriage better and better? 

  • The power of looking forward to something together 

  • Tips to reclaiming fun in your marriage 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!

 

RESOURCES 

  • Dr. Kim and Nancy's book Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half is out! Click HERE to order your copy! 

  • When it comes to having fun and not taking things too seriously, Dr. Kim and Nancy have got receipts! See all the shenanigans on TikTok and Instagram :)

  • Want to have more fun with your marriage? Our 14 Days of Marriage Fun resource helps you break up the routine and enjoy more fun and laughter together! 

 

When God Meets Us Where We Are with Eric & Erikah Rivera | Ep. 559 0
May 31, 2023

When Eric and Erikah Rivera met and started dating as high school sweethearts, they sensed God’s call on their lives. But they did not know how it would all unfold. Today they are church planters in their hometown of Chicago, and they graciously share their story of how God has met them in the midst of unexpected fear and pain, and the ways He has worked in each circumstance. Don’t miss this encouraging conversation with the Riveras. 

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 



Episode highlights include: 

  • How sharing their fears and grief with each other led to increased faith

  • Unexpected ways God can use our trials when we invite Him to 

  • Should the disciple be known as “Doubting Thomas” or “Ride-or-Die Thomas”?  

  • When God doesn’t answer our prayers the way we hope  

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

Application Questions:  

  1. What fears are underlying in your heart and mind today? What prevents you from speaking them? 

  2. Where do you need to see Jesus show up in your life today? In your marriage? 

  3. How do you need support in those things in your marriage today? 

  4. How can you better support your spouse in the things they are dealing with today? 

 

RESOURCES

 

Healing Your Heart and Your Marriage | Unpack the Baggage In Your Marriage with John and Stasi Eldredge | Ep. 557 0
May 16, 2023

How can disappointment or unmet expectations in marriage lead us to God’s healing? Our marriage will only be as healthy as the two people in it, and God wants to restore and heal our hearts. We’re delighted to have John and Stasi Eldredge on the podcast today. The Eldredges share so much wisdom and their personal experiences with God’s healing power in their lives and their marriage. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • How to navigate expectations for your marriage and the hurt they can bring 

  • How to take pressure off your spouse and your marriage

  • he two great conversions in the Christian life

  • What they would have missed if they had called it quits  

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

RESOURCES

What does it mean to hold space for our spouse? | Unpack the Baggage In Your Marriage With Dr. Kelly Flanagan 0
May 9, 2023

When we carry parts of our past with us, it still affects us into today. If we aren’t talking about how the past is for each spouse pushing its way into the present, then we’re probably not getting to the depth of the truth of what’s really going on.

Dr. Kelly Flanagan is a repeat guest on the podcast, and today he shares some transformative steps to dealing with what’s under the surface, and helping your spouse to do the same. Don’t miss this helpful episode! 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Do we really need to bring up old stuff from the past? Why does it matter now? 

  • Is your heart open to your spouse, or closed? 

  • What are steps to helping a spouse deal with their baggage? 

  • What does it mean to “hold space” for your spouse? Plus why and how to do that

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

RESOURCES

The 3 Words With The Potential To Change Your Life With Pastor Mark Battterson 0
Apr 25, 2023
How can just three words help strengthen your emotional, spiritual and mental health? Not only that, but Pastor Mark Batterson says they can shift the tide and change everything. Please, Sorry, Thanks is the name of Pastor Mark Batterson’s new book, and he is here today with Dr. Kim, sharing why it’s worth devoting an entire book to three of the first words many of us were taught growing up! Don’t miss this powerful episode. 

 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Practices to better position ourselves to hear God’s voice over the world’s noise 

  • The psychology of please, the science of sorry, and the theology of thanks

  • The antidote to bitterness, and the lasting impacts of unconfessed bitterness 

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

RESOURCES

  • For some guidance to try Mark’s idea of asking great questions, try our 52 Questions For Your Family Table. These are designed to help you ask great questions and engage in interesting conversation! 

  • If you enjoyed this episode, you will love Mark’s new book Please, Sorry, Thanks!

 

Boundaries Q & A | Ep. 552 0
Apr 18, 2023

Today we tackle listener questions about how to practically apply boundaries in specific marriage situations. Dr. Kim gives some great starting points to help you deal with situations that you may be facing where a boundary would help, but you just don’t know what that boundary should be, or how to set it. 

 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Decision-making boundaries with in-laws 

  • Dealing with a controlling parent

  • How to address an unmet promise without nagging

  • Finding creative solutions to address marriage pain points

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

Learn all about how to set healthy boundaries for your marriage with our Building Better Boundaries For Your Marriage online course. 

Our new Boundaries Workbook Guide helps you decide where and how to start applying this content to your marriage.

How To Disagree Without Defensiveness With Mike Donehey | Ep. 549 0
Mar 28, 2023

Do you ever get a little defensive when your spouse disagrees with you? Marriage disagreements get real because we can’t just ignore what we don’t agree on like we can with an acquaintance. Today Mike Donehey joins Dr. Kim on the podcast and shares gospel-centered wisdom that shows us a better way to disagree.

Episode highlights include: 

  • How Christians should handle defensiveness 

  • A great way to diffuse an argument as soon as it begins 

  • What can happen when we take the time to really hear the other person’s argument 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!

 

RESOURCES

Boundaries Within Your Marriage | Ep. 546 0
Mar 7, 2023

There are several types of boundaries that you need to have within your marriage. Chances are you already have some. But there may be pain points in your marriage that healthy boundaries can help. Today we cover a lot of ground as we get into the details of some boundaries that may be needed within your marriage to help you, your spouse and your marriage be your healthiest. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Ways to approach a conversation about free time and hobbies without a fight

  • The most common areas where most couples might need boundaries

  • Signs that you need a boundary in a given area

  • How NOT to do your budget together 

  • Plus - Do you have a hobby to answer my question at the end of the episode? I’m so curious - there’s bound to be one! 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

 

5 Rhythms of a Healthy Marriage with Chris & Jenni Graebe | Ep. 545 0
Feb 28, 2023

What are the rhythms of your marriage? Whether you know what they are or not, you have rhythms, and they are shaping who you will become as a couple. Today on the podcast Chris and Jenni Graebe join Dr. Kim to talk about five rhythms for a healthy marriage, and how you can work together to get in the groove. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • What are the 5 rhythms? 

  • How to talk about issues in your marriage without starting a fight 

  • Why speaking life is such an important rhythm, and why it affects more than your marriage. 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

Boundaries For Your Marriage: What They Are And Why They Are Important 0
Feb 21, 2023

Today we’re kicking off a series about boundaries in marriage. What they are, what they are not, and why they are essential in a healthy marriage. We get a lot of questions on the topic, and in this series we will share the types of boundaries that can help a marriage, and how to implement them. This series will be full of practical applications and we’d love to answer your questions. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • What can boundaries do for your marriage? 

  • What can they NOT do? 

  • Dr. Kim’s take on an age old example of physical affection at unwelcome times 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

 

Does Being a Christian Mean Staying Married, No Matter What? | Ep. 540 0
Jan 24, 2023

Today Dr. Kim answers the question, “Do Christians have to stay married, no matter what?” We have heard from several listeners who are in difficult, painful and even abusive marriages. Some said their spouse takes advantage of knowing they will continue to stay as a rationale for continuing harmful patterns.

This topic is complicated and nuanced, but there are some clear biblical principles about marriage that can help to navigate a response to these painful situations. Listen to learn more. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Does Scripture support staying with a spouse no matter what 
  • Dr. Kim shares why and how he recommends separation
  • Advice to a spouse whose abuser has been enabled by a church or pastor 
  • What a loving marriage looks like, just so no one has to wonder! 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

Become the Spouse You're Made to Be With Levi & Jennie Lusko | Ep. 534 0
Nov 22, 2022

Today Dr. Kim welcomes return guests Levi and Jennie Lusko to the podcast. In this episode, they talk about their new book, The Marriage Devotional, and answer why they wrote a marriage devotional, how that process affected their marriage, the power of scripture in marriage gift God gave us, and much more!

Don’t miss this deeply encouraging episode! 

Episode highlights include: 

  • Why there is power to going to church in person as a couple  
  • What might be going on when you don’t get anything out of a sermon or Bible reading
  • Levi and Jennie share how they’ve personally worked to grow as spouses  
  • Some of the unseen purposes of sex in marriage 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

Resources: 

 

The Worst Marriage Advice We've Heard | Ep. 529 0
Oct 18, 2022

Have you gotten bad marriage advice? We sure have! We’ve heard so many things that just aren’t helpful for marriage, but we didn’t always realize it! Trying to follow a harmful piece of marriage will damage your marriage over time. So today we call out bad marriage advice, give ways to prevent yourself from falling prey to it, and help you determine what's good advice, and what's worth tossing out. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • How to tell whether it’s good advice or not 
  • The downside of getting marriage advice online 
  • Plus Dr. Kim answers an listener question about a spouse who refuses to go to church 

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

Resources: 

  • Our new Conflict Solving Survey is designed to help you approach the conflict conversation in a gentle way that doesn’t end in conflict! We think this will help you approach conflict well. 
  • Growing in self-awareness is a gift to yourself, your spouse, and your marriage. That’s why we created The Self Check In Guide. Learn more about this helpful resource!  
  • If your marriage is really struggling, our Marriage 911 Course was designed as the emergency help you need to get back on track. Check it out today!
  • Loving our monthly resources? Marriage Changers get instant access to every months’ new resource – and so much more! Learn more here. 
  • Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram, Facebook and find Dr. Kim on TikTok!
  • Get bite-sized daily doses of marriage wisdom delivered straight to your inbox with Dr. Kim’s Daily One Thing email. As a subscriber, you’ll also be eligible for some awesome freebies! 
  • Dr. Kim’s weekly Marriage Multiplier email brings you 4 pieces of practical marriage wisdom in one quick, easy-to-read free weekly email.
Are You Getting Bitter, Or Getting Better? | Ep. 526 0
Sep 13, 2022

{Editor's Note: Audio was repaired 11/2023.} So much of life is not what happens to us, but how we respond to it. Life is hard and it never seems to go exactly according to our plans. My grandad said that we all have the choice to either get bitter, or get better. And he lived out what it looks like to get better, even in the face of all of life’s troubles.

Today Dr. Kim shares what ongoing bitterness looks like over time, and how we can avoid becoming grouchy, grumpy, and mean! 

Episode highlights include: 

  • How to know if you’re becoming more bitter 
  • Practical steps to help you “get better” instead
  • Tips for dealing with the difficult people in your life 
  • This week’s anonymous listener question leads to a memorable story from one of Dr. Kim and Nancy’s recent dates 

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

P.S. I misquoted his age in the episode - my grandad lived to 94½ before he went to heaven last year! 

 

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*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

Resources: 

 

 

Things to Consider if You're Thinking About Having Kids | Ep. 525 0
Sep 6, 2022

What are the pros and cons of having kids? Can you know if you’re really ready? Today Dr. Kim and I discuss how to know and how we each went through that process with our spouse. We share some practical ways to get on the same page with your spouse, as well as some of our favorite parts of being parents. Listen in to learn more!

 

Episode highlights include: 

  • How we navigated the transitions from being childless couples to having kids
  • Surprises that couples often face when they become parents 
  • Tips to getting on the same page about this 
  • This week’s anonymous question: Is it okay to use birth control? 

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

 

Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our “5 Days 5 Ways” Love Languages resource for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

Resources: 

  • The Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide  
  • You could win a $250 Amazon gift card when you submit a screenshot of your rating and review of the Awesome Marriage Podcast! Use this link to enter! 
  • Do you feel like you and your spouse aren’t as unified as you’d like? It’s time to get on the same page! This Unity Building Journal is designed to help you look at key areas of your marriage and work to get unified. 
  • Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram, Facebook and find Dr. Kim on TikTok!
  • Ready to level up your marriage? With the Marriage Changers membership yet you get all of our monthly resources, plus some other sweet benefits, like Tshirts and exclusive videos with Dr. Kim and Nancy! Learn more here!
  • Get bite-sized daily doses of marriage wisdom delivered straight to your inbox with Dr. Kim’s Daily One Thing email. As a subscriber, you’ll also be eligible for some awesome freebies!  
  • Dr. Kim’s free weekly Marriage Multiplier email brings you 4 pieces of practical marriage wisdom in one quick, easy-to-read free weekly email. 

 

Healthy Self / Healthy Marriage: Mental Health & Your Marriage | Ep. 522 0
Aug 16, 2022

Mental health impacts every aspect of our life, so it will certainly impact our marriage. I am so thankful for Dr. Kim’s deep experience with this topic! In this episode we covered everything from how to know when to work on things ourselves, when to seek help, and effective but practical ways to boost mental health in everyday life. Tune in to learn more. 

 

Episode highlights include: 

  • How to know when you need professional help
  • Practical everyday tips to boosting your mental health 
  • How to help a spouse that is struggling with their mental health, while staying healthy yourself
  • Plus this week’s anonymous question about a long-winded spouse

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.

Make sure you subscribe to Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you sign up, we’ll send you our “5 Days 5 Ways” Love Languages resource for free as a sign up bonus, plus you get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox each week! 

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

  • Do you feel like you and your spouse aren’t as unified as you’d like? It’s time to get on the same page! Our Unity Building Journal is designed to help you look at key areas of your marriage and work to get unified.
  • We have created a Self-Check In Guide that is a helpful place to start uncovering what’s going on with you and to grow more self-aware. 
  • Here’s that episode where Carey Nieuwhof and Dave Adamson talk about getting healthy sleep!   
  • Follow this link to leave us a rating & review on iTunes on the Apple Podcasts Page. We *so* appreciate your support of the podcast! 
  • Ready to level up your marriage? With a Marriage Changers membership yet you get all of our monthly resources, plus some other sweet benefits, like Tshirts and exclusive videos with Dr. Kim and Nancy! Learn more here!
  • Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram, Facebook and find Dr. Kim on TikTok!
  • Get bite-sized daily doses of marriage wisdom delivered straight to your inbox with Dr. Kim’s Daily One Thing email. As a subscriber, you’ll also be eligible for some awesome freebies!  
  • Dr. Kim’s weekly Marriage Multiplier brings you 4 pieces of practical marriage wisdom in one quick, easy-to-read free weekly email.  

 

Healthy Self / Healthy Marriage: The Connection Between Emotional & Spiritual Health | Ep. 521 0
Aug 9, 2022

The healthiest marriages are between two healthy people. This week we’re unpacking why it’s so hard to be spiritually healthy without emotional health. The two are linked because a lack of knowing ourselves will seriously hinder our ability to connect with God and others. It’s a lot simpler, more accessible, and less touchy-feely than it may sound. 

Episode highlights include: 

  • The connection between emotional and spiritual health 
  • The unintended relational effects of unprocessed emotions
  • Tips to grow in emotionally and spiritually health
  • Plus this week’s anonymous listener question about an apathetic spouse 

 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our “5 Days 5 Ways” Love Languages resource for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.

 

*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

 

RESOURCES

  • Do you have “healthy self” questions for us? Send them in and we’ll answer in a Healthy Self / Healthy Marriage Q & A episode! 
  • Emotionally Healthy Discipleship Podcast 
  • Our Awesome Marriage YouVersion Plans help you read and apply Scripture
  • The Bible Project is an awesome resource to help you understand the Bible 
  • Do you feel like you and your spouse aren’t as unified as you’d like? It’s time to get on the same page! This Unity Building Journal is designed to help you look at key areas of your marriage and work to get unified.
  • Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram, Facebook and find Dr. Kim on TikTok!
  • Find the link to leave us a rating & review on iTunes on the Apple Podcasts Page. We *so* appreciate your support of the podcast! 
  • Ready to level up your marriage? With the Marriage Changers membership yet you get all of our monthly resources, plus some other sweet benefits, like Tshirts and exclusive videos with Dr. Kim and Nancy! Learn more here!
  • Get bite-sized daily doses of marriage wisdom delivered straight to your inbox with Dr. Kim’s Daily One Thing email. As a subscriber, you’ll also be eligible for some awesome freebies!  
  • Dr. Kim’s free weekly Marriage Multiplier email brings you 4 pieces of practical marriage wisdom in one quick, easy-to-read free weekly email.  
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