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Awesome Marriage Podcast

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for over 50 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40+ years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage ,14 Keys To Lasting Love, and most recently Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim will be joined once a month by his wife of 55 years, Nancy Kimberling. He will also host other great guests that will teach and encourage you as you intentionally pursue an awesome marriage. Tune in each week to hear practical advice from Dr. Kim. This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.
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Worth Repeating: How to Make Romance Realistic in Your Marriage 0
Dec 30, 2025

How’s the romance in your marriage? How does it compare to when you were dating? (… and does that matter?)

Romance can fall by the wayside in marriage because it seems like an “extra” that you’ll get around to when you have extra time or money, or if you feel inspired to make a grand gesture. 

But today Dr. Kim shares several reasons NOT to let that be the case in your marriage. Listen to learn why you need to bring the romance back and HOW to realistically make that happen. 

We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. 

 

Episode highlights include:  

  • Dr. Kim shares several specific ways romance benefits a marriage 

  • What does romance look like for men vs. for women? 

  • What to do if you’re just not feeling it 

  • Whose job is it to make sure the romance is good?  

 Quotes from This Episode:

  • “Most people would say at some point it was there. So how do you get it back?” - Dr. Kim Kimberling

  • “We kind of quit doing romantic things because we’re not feeling it. Sometimes we have to go ahead and do them, so that we feel it again.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling

  • “Marriage is a lot better when you’ve got romance in it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling

  • “I think we’d like it to come naturally, like it does in the movies.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling

  • “It’s ok to have the conversation. We have to get past the mindset of, ‘If you really loved me, you’d know.’” - Dr. Kim Kimberling

  • “Romance is a great way to show your spouse, I see you, I appreciate you, and I care about what you care about.” - Lindsay Few 

Questions for You:

  •  Have you talked about romance with your spouse? If not …

    • Ask them: What is sexy to you? What is romantic to you? 

    • Don’t judge their answers! 

    • Answers may change over time, so check in every now and then. 

Worth Repeating: Deepen the Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage 0
Dec 23, 2025

Want better connection with your spouse? One thing we hear a lot from couples is that they don’t feel close to each other or that their relationship feels like it’s missing some depth. That’s why today we’re re-airing this episode from Dr. Kim and Christina that talks all about emotional intimacy and gives you ideas of practical ways to deepen the emotional intimacy in your marriage. 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

Episode highlights include:  

  • What is emotional intimacy, and why does it matter? 

  • Warning signs you need to grow in this area 

  • Emotional intimacy killers to avoid  

  • Tips to start working on this - alone, and together 

Quotes from This Episode:

  • “It is hard work knowing someone. You have to pay attention. It takes work to be intimate.” - Christina Dodson 

  • “Laziness and business are going to block your intimacy, so we have to fight against those things.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling 

  • “Give yourself opportunities to connect.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling 

  • “It adds value to my marriage for me to have a relationship with my friends, just like it benefits our marriage that he has guy friends.” - Christina Dodson 

  • “You could have had the best childhood in the world and you still have baggage because we’re human. That’s okay, and you can deal with that.” - Christina Dodson 

  • “You can’t be emotionally intimate with your spouse if you aren’t aware of your own emotions.” - Christina Dodson 

 

Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it’s our gift to you for your donation of any amount. 

  • Your marriage can only be as healthy as the two of you are. The Bible says, “Let us examine our ways and test them and let us return to the Lord” (Lamentations 3:40). Our new Self Check-In Guide will help you do just that! 

  • Print out this Feelings Chart and use it to help you talk about your emotions.

  • Our Questions To Help Your Spouse Open Up resource is a simple way to help build the closeness between you and your spouse. Accountability is a biblical and helpful tool for growing in holiness.

Worth Repeating: How To NOT Fight With Your Spouse About Money with Julie Baumgardner 0
Dec 16, 2025

The Awesome Marriage Podcast is on winter break, and over the next four weeks we’ll be sharing some of our favorite past episodes with you.

First up: Finances! No one loves talking finances, but we do think you’ll love today’s conversation with Julie Baumgardner! Julie shares how to get curious about what money means to your spouse, how two spouses’ separate financial backgrounds and “money stories” can stop being a source of tension, and start becoming a shared value. 

Listen to this episode if you’re ready to get on the same page with your spouse about finances this season - without fighting about them! 

 

Episode highlights include:  

  •  Questions to start a productive conversation about finances with your spouse

  • How to uncover the hidden money lessons you learned growing up, then to get on the same page with your spouse. 

  • What recent research says about the connection of money and marital happiness 

  • How to learn more about your spouse’s perspective about money 

  • Ways to work together toward shared values around money in your marriage

 

QUOTES:

  • “You have different perspectives about money. You don’t necessarily talk about what it means to you, how you think about it, therefore you argue about it.” - Julie Baumgardner  

  • “You can have conversations about money without having to be methodical about every single penny.” - Julie Baumgardner 

  • “If you can’t figure out how to live within your means with a little, it will be very complicated to figure out how to live within your means with a lot.” - Julie Baumgardner 

  • “It isn’t ‘You’re right, I’m wrong,’ you’re being curious. And in being curious, you’re learning.” - Julie Baumgardner 

  • “If you can tell that money is creating stress, what is it about money that’s stressful?” - Julie Baumgardner 

  • “Keep your eyes wide open for where God is calling you to join Him in his work. Be aware, and where you see a need, be a Kingdom builder. ” - Julie Baumgardner 

 

QUESTIONS FOR YOU:

  • What matters most to the two of you when it comes to money? It’s never too late to define your core values around money in your marriage. 

  • What is it about money that’s stressful?  If it’s “what ifs," then name the what-ifs and talk through them. 

 

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More Than Mistletoe: Staying Spiritually Rooted and Emotionally Connected in Your Marriage This Christmas Ep. 707 0
Dec 9, 2025

The holidays promise joy and togetherness but for many couples, they also bring stress, busyness, and mismatched expectations. In this episode, we’re helping you slow down, reconnect, and approach the season with intention. We talk honestly about why couples often drift spiritually and emotionally in December and offer simple, realistic ways to stay grounded in Christ and connected to each other. From aligning holiday expectations to creating meaningful traditions, you’ll walk away with practical tools to cultivate peace, gratitude, and unity in your marriage. Whether this season feels exciting or overwhelming, this conversation will help you not just survive the holidays—but truly thrive together.

 

Episode Highlights:

The holidays can magnify an already existing disconnect.

When Christ isn’t the center of the holidays and your marriage, both will suffer.

True joy doesn’t come from a full schedule.





Quotes from Today’s Episode:

When we take our eyes off the true reason for Christmas—Christ—we get caught up in the world's chaos. 

Don't abandon what nourishes your soul just because life gets hectic.

The habits that sustain you all year are even more vital during the holidays.

Keep your year-round rhythms strong—pray together, make time to communicate, and carve out quiet moments as a couple amid the December rush.

Acts of generosity spark joy and deepen your connection.

Intentionality is everything—if you aren't purposeful, the busyness will steal your time and memories. 

Release the pressure to do it all—focus on what brings true joy to your family.

Give yourself permission to let go of traditions that drain you, making room for new ones—or simply space to rest, bake cookies, and enjoy music by the tree.

 

Couple’s Conversation Guide:

1. Which part of the holidays tends to be most stressful for each of us, and why?

2. Is there a simple spiritual practice we could commit to together this December?
 

3. Where do our expectations differ when it comes to gifts, gatherings, travel, or downtime?

4. What new tradition could we create this year that fits who we are as a couple right now?



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‘I Do’ Today and Tomorrow and Forever: Staying Intentional with Chelsea Smith Ep. 706 0
Dec 2, 2025

No matter what season of marriage you’re in, intentionality is essential. It’s what keeps the spark alive, rekindles romance, and helps you withstand the temptations and pressures of everyday life. Chelsea Smith joins me to talk about her new book, “I Do” Today: A 52-Week Guide to the Marriage You’ve Been Waiting For. This conversation will encourage you, inspire you, and challenge you to pursue a marriage marked by purpose, growth, and joy because you were never meant to settle for anything less than an awesome marriage.




Episode Takeaways:

A healthy sex life is vital for a healthy marriage.

Serving your spouse before you feel like they deserve it will change your perspective and the atmosphere of your marriage.

Never settle for what you know about your spouse- stay curious.

Only God’s design for marriage leads to the true fullness He intended for your relationship.

 

Quotes from this episode:

"Marriage is the hardest and most rewarding relationship we have in this life." - Dr. Kim

"We can't do it on our own." - Chelsea Smith

"The best gift we can give our children is a healthy marriage." - Chelsea Smith

"Our marriages are the strongest evangelistic tool we have." - Chelsea Smith

"Sex is different in a Christian marriage because there's a spiritual component." - Dr. Kim

"The marriage of your dreams isn't a fantasy." - Chelsea Smith

"The power of thoughts towards your spouse can change everything." - Chelsea Smith

"The marriage of your dreams is not difficult; it's work." - Chelsea Smith

"I want people to know that we still work at it. We've been through tough times too, but it's worth it." - Dr. Kim

"You can't just put them in a box and set aside. A lifetime is not long enough to learn everything there is about your spouse." - Dr. Kim

 

Couples Conversation Guide

  1. On a scale of 1–10, how intentional have you been about investing in your marriage in this season?

  2. What’s one thing you could do today to move that number closer to a 10?

  3. Are there any resentments, assumptions, or unspoken expectations that might be clouding how you see your spouse?

  4. Does an “awesome marriage” feel attainable to you right now? If not, why—and what steps could you and your spouse take to move toward it together?



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