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Awesome Marriage Podcast

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for over 50 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40+ years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage ,14 Keys To Lasting Love, and most recently Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim will be joined once a month by his wife of 55 years, Nancy Kimberling. He will also host other great guests that will teach and encourage you as you intentionally pursue an awesome marriage. Tune in each week to hear practical advice from Dr. Kim. This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.
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Now displaying: July, 2025
Crushing Chaos: God’s Design for Order in Marriage with Manny Arango Ep 688 0
Jul 29, 2025

What if the chaos in your life and marriage isn’t random, but the result of living out of sync with God’s divine order? In this powerful episode, Dr. Kim welcomes pastor, author, and Bible teacher Manny Arango to the show for the first time. Drawing from his book Crushing Chaos, Manny shares how God brings peace by establishing order and how that same truth can transform our marriages. From understanding “Sequence, Authority, Rhythm” to identifying the chaos we invite into our homes, this conversation is full of practical wisdom and biblical depth. Whether you're navigating stress, disconnection, or just longing for more peace at home, this episode will help you move toward order, unity, and rest.

 

Episode Highlights:

God’s first works calm the chaos.

Understanding God’s context changes the way we read the Bible.

God is an expert at not just blessing people with peace, but giving people order.

We can’t make lasting decisions in our marriage based on a temporary rhythm.

Boundaries are necessary for proper order.

 

Quotes from Today's Episode:

Alot of times we are really good at knowing what the Bible says, but not good at knowing what the Bible means. 

He takes our lives which are naturally chaotic and dysfunctional and God begins to create order. 

Most people think the opposite of chaos is peace, but the reality is the opposite of chaos is order. 

Life is full of rhythm. You can’t fight against the rhythm of life. 

God does healthy, biblically inspired boundaries. 

Your feelings aren’t a good indicator of whether or not something is godly or biblical.

The Word of God has to have preeminence. 

 

Couples’ Conversation Guide:

  1. Where might we be living out of sync with God’s order in our marriage or home?

  2. How do we define peace in our marriage? Do you feel like it is based on emotions or God’s order?

  3. What boundaries might we need to set to protect the rhythm and health of our relationship?

 

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Help! My Spouse’s Coworker Is a Problem Ep. 687 0
Jul 22, 2025

In this episode, Dr. Kim opens up about how workplace relationships, especially dealing with negative and/or flirtatious coworkers, can impact marriage. He encourages couples to recognize these concerns, lean on biblical truth, and take intentional, practical steps to protect and strengthen their relationship. This episode reminds us of the power of open communication, the importance of setting healthy boundaries, and the hope we can find in trusting God through every season of marriage.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Concern about coworkers is a valid issue in marriages.

  • Bad company can corrupt good character, as warned in scripture.

  • It's essential to communicate concerns with love and honesty.

  • Praying for wisdom and protection is crucial in navigating these situations.

  • Strengthening the marriage bond is the best defense against outside influences.

  • Being a positive influence in your spouse's life can counteract negative coworkers.

  • Setting healthy boundaries for workplace relationships is necessary.

  • Knowing when to step back and trust God is important.

  • Focus on building a positive atmosphere at home.

  • Each person is responsible for their own choices before God.

  • 24/7 365 Foreplay

 

Quotes from this Episode:

Walk with the wise and become wise.

The company we keep matters.

Addressing the situation requires discernment not knee jerk reactions.

Even in marriage, where two become one flesh, each person remains an individual.

A spouse is to be respected.

Communicate with love and honesty.

Sometimes the most effective communication comes through questions rather than direct confrontation.

The most important thing Nancy and I have done in our marriage is prayer daily.

Be that uplifting thing that your spouse needs. 

Know when to step back. 

Anytime we are in a situation where we could compromise our relationship with our spouse we have to run. 

Workplace relationships are significant but they aren’t all powerful.

 

Couple's Conversation Guide:

  1. Are there relationships at your workplace that are taking time or emotional energy away from your connection with your spouse? How can you set healthy boundaries?

  2. Do any coworkers influence your attitudes or behaviors in ways that conflict with the values you and your spouse have established for your marriage and home?

  3. How can your faith guide you in responding to difficult or questionable coworkers while maintaining peace and integrity?

  4. What steps can you take to protect your marriage from workplace stress and distractions, ensuring your spouse remains your first priority?

 

Mentioned in this Episode:

  • Find Dr. Kim on Instagram

  • If you strengthen your marriage at home, the affects of work will lessen! Keeping marriage fun means date night can’t be boring. Check out our Date Night Boosters. Reignite the fun and intimacy in your date nights with your spouse.

  • Awesome Marriage swag is now LIVE! Grab a gift for you, your spouse or another couple. There’s something for everyone. 

 

Marriage, Ministry & the Mess: God in Every Season with Amie Seiffert Ep. 686 0
Jul 15, 2025

In this episode of the Awesome Marriage Podcast, Dr. Kim sits down with special guest Amie Seiffert, author, speaker, and pastor, for a rich and real conversation about enjoying and engaging with God in every season. Amie shares her journey of faith and the ups and downs of pursuing her calling while raising a family. Together, they unpack the beauty of grace, the power of humor, and the comfort found in Scripture during life’s hardest seasons. Whether you’re navigating parenting, ministry, or marriage, this episode will remind you that God is present in every season.

Episode Highlights:

  • Grace is a central theme in ministry and relationships.
  • Find opportunities to laugh together.
  • Seasons of life are temporary and ever-changing.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

This for now is not forever.

We are held by grace. 

Humor is such a way to bring things back down to earth.

I don’t want to live offended.

We have buzz words that bring each other back to reality.

If I feel overwhelmed, I learned this at therapy, I will give a number on a scale of 1-10.

It’s hard to say you need help, but it’s rewarding.

 

Couple’s Conversation Guide:

  1. How do you think grace shows up in our marriage—and where could we use more of it?

  2. Amie talked about humor being important in marriage—what are some ways we could be more intentional about laughing together?

  3. What does open communication look like for us during stressful or busy seasons? Do we need to make changes?

  4. Have you ever struggled with self-doubt in your calling or role in our family? How can I better support you in those moments?

  5. What season of life are we in right now, and how can we stay grounded in God while walking through it together?

  6. How can we better support one another in balancing our individual callings with our family life?

 

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Built to Last: What Makes (or Breaks) a Thriving Marriage 0
Jul 8, 2025

Just when you thought you couldn’t love Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy more—this episode takes things to a whole new level. With honesty and heart, they open up about the real journey of their marriage—sharing the intentional choices, tough seasons, and deep faith that carried them through. From early challenges that could have pulled them apart to the daily decisions that drew them closer, their story reflects what’s possible when a couple chooses to build on the foundation of Christ. Their marriage is both relatable and inspiring—a powerful reminder that when God is kept first, a marriage doesn’t just survive—it thrives.

Episode Highlights:

Intentionality is key.

Marriages won't thrive naturally.

Taking ownership and openly communicating are important tools for successful marriages.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

Don’t be negative. 

I think we were in lust not in love.

I think we had to build true love in our marriage.

We’ve learned to build bit by bit.

I thought if I loved you enough everything was going to be ok.

Until you realize how much God loves you as a person you aren’t truly free to love another person.

Divorce isn’t a word in our vocabulary anymore, commitment is!

We realize now what we were missing.

Just getting married doesn’t mean you won’t feel alone. 

 

Questions for Conversation:

  1. What part of Dr. Kim and Nancy’s story felt most relatable or surprising to you? Why?

  2. Have you ever assumed love alone would be enough to fix everything? How has your view of love and commitment changed over time?

  3. Have there been moments where one (or both) of you felt alone in your marriage? What helped reconnect you—or what could help now?

  4. Is “divorce” or emotional withdrawal ever subtly present as an option in your mindset or language? What does it look like to choose commitment every day?

  5. How can you better prioritize keeping God first in your marriage this week?

  6. What’s one thing you want to be intentional about after listening to this episode—together or individually?

 

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Keeping Your Spouse First and Your Marriage Fun with Arlene Pellicane 0
Jul 1, 2025

This is the perfect episode to kick off July, as this month at Awesome Marriage we’re highlighting the importance of dating your spouse. Arlene Pellicane joins me in the studio to talk about keeping your spouse first and your marriage fun! But what does that actually look like? In the midst of life’s demands, Arlene shares practical tips and loads of wisdom to help you keep investing in your marriage and enjoying your spouse. We pray this episode encourages your marriage.

Episode Takeaways:

  • Marriage and parenting are common pain points for many people.

  • The divorce rate is down, but so is the marriage rate.

  • Men are marrying later and less frequently than in the past.

  • Gray divorce is on the rise, with more older couples divorcing.

  • Couples often stay together for the kids but drift apart afterward.

  • Awareness of vulnerability in marriage is crucial.

  • Gratitude can transform how you view your spouse.

  • Serving your spouse should be unconditional, regardless of their actions.

  • Fun is essential in maintaining a healthy marriage.

  • Finding common interests can strengthen the bond between spouses. Be creative in finding fun activities together.

  • Family meals are essential for daily connection.

  • Prioritizing your spouse can enhance the marriage.

  • It's important to forgive quickly in a marriage.

  • Express gratitude for your spouse regularly.

  • Shared experiences create lasting memories.

  • Nurturing the marriage benefits the entire family.

  • Every day together is a gift to cherish.

  • The book 'Making Marriage Easier' offers practical insights.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

  • "It's never too late to turn that around."

  • "We want to avoid drifting apart."

  • "Play by God's rules in your marriage."

  • "Who can out-serve the other?"

  • "I will try it, even if I'm not good at it."

  • "What can we do all together?"

  • "You don't have to do it like everyone else."

  • "It blesses your kids."

  • "Every day is a gift that we have together."

 

Questions for Conversation:

  1. What practical steps can you take this week to put your marriage first, even amidst busy schedules and family demands?

  2. How can you create more opportunities for fun and laughter with your spouse, making your relationship a joyful priority?

  3. In what ways can prioritizing your spouse help you both feel more connected and valued in your daily life?

  4. What new or creative activities can you plan together to bring more excitement and shared enjoyment into your marriage?

 

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