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Awesome Marriage Podcast

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for over 50 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40+ years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage ,14 Keys To Lasting Love, and most recently Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim will be joined once a month by his wife of 55 years, Nancy Kimberling. He will also host other great guests that will teach and encourage you as you intentionally pursue an awesome marriage. Tune in each week to hear practical advice from Dr. Kim. This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.
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Now displaying: June, 2025
Jun 24, 2025

What does it really mean to be friends with God—and how can that friendship fill our lives with lasting joy? In this uplifting episode, we talk with Faith about how intimacy with God shifts our desires, strengthens our faith, and sustains us through hardship. We also explore how to take that next step into deeper friendship with Him, and what it practically looks like to live each day knowing God as both Father and Friend. Plus, don’t miss details on our journal giveaway over on Instagram @awesome_marriage!

Episode Highlights:

  • Friendship with God sparks joy in our lives.

  • Joy is referenced over 400 times in scripture.

  • Our default mode is to find joy in God's presence.

  • Joy is not just a moment but a continuous state.

  • The fall of humankind began when joy was sought outside of God.

  • Joy is deeper than happiness; it encompasses peace and confidence.

  • Every season of life has its own joy to discover.

  • Jesus is the source of our completion and joy. Enjoying the Holy Spirit alters your desires.

  • Acknowledging God in daily life fosters intimacy.

  • Practicing the presence of God can be done in all activities.

  • Friendship with God is accessible through salvation.

Questions for Reflection:

  • How would you describe your current friendship with God?
  • What moments in your life have made you feel closest to God? What did those times have in common?
  • What spiritual disciplines or habits help you feel more connected to God on a daily basis?
  • Are there any areas where you feel distant from God right now? What might be contributing to that?
  • Are there any distractions or habits you might need to let go of to prioritize friendship with God?

Quotes from Today’s Episode:

  • "We can be friends with God."

  • "Jesus is where my completion is."

  • "He does the heart work."

  • "Acknowledge Him in all your ways."

  • "God's got answers for all of us."


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Jun 17, 2025

In today’s episode, we explore how constant connectivity and work stress can quietly invade our marriages. When work becomes all-consuming, it can turn into an idol and create emotional distance between spouses. We discuss why learning to leave work at work is a spiritual discipline and how true support means walking alongside your spouse, not having all the answers. You’ll hear practical wisdom on setting boundaries together, sharing burdens, and seeking counsel early. Marriage is about more than success—it’s about not facing struggles alone.

 

Episode Highlights: 

  • Technology has blurred our boundaries between work and home. 
  • Learning to leave work at work is a spiritual discipline.
  • Being supportive doesn’t mean you have to all the answers- it means you’re walking alongside your spouse.
  • The pace of modern culture doesn’t allow proper mental closure.

 

Quotes from Today’s Episodes:

  • A lot of people in the workplace feel the expectation to be available 24/7/365
  • Work problems begin to feel like personal problems- like they need immediate attention.
  • Our ultimate identity is not in our professional performance. 
  • Work stress can be like an invisible third person in your marriage.
  • When work becomes all consuming it shifts into an idol.
  • Our marriages are about something bigger than career success.
  • Marriage is about sharing burdens- not just the good stuff. 
  • Trying to handle stress alone creates distance in the marriage.
  • There’s something spiritually significant about not facing struggles alone. 
  • The most effective boundaries are the ones you create together.
  • They need to know your concern comes from a place of care not criticism.
  • The earlier you involve wise counsel the more effectively you can address issues before they become entrenched patterns. 



Questions for Discussion:

  • Do you currently have any transitional rituals in place? If not, what rituals can the two of you agree to implement? 
  • Do you currently implement any device free times/ zones?
  • Are you using technology to connect with your spouse in healthy ways? (encouraging text, midday phone call)

 

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Jun 10, 2025

In this special Father’s Day edition of the podcast, I’m joined by my good friend Larry Hagner. While we’re focusing on fatherhood, this episode is packed with wisdom for every married couple. From building a stronger marriage, to deepening your connection with your kids, to taking care of your own well-being—Larry shares wisdom that every family can benefit from.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Community and support are essential for fathers.

  • The relationship between husband and father roles is interconnected.

  • Children learn about relationships from their parents' marriage.

  • Legacy is built through the relationships we model.

  • Seeking help and resources is a sign of strength.

  •  Intimacy is rooted in emotional connection.

  • Understanding your partner's needs is crucial for intimacy.

  • Sex is a celebration of a strong emotional bond.

  • Being a spiritual leader starts with self-leadership.

  • Proactive planning can enhance relationships.

  • Navigating modern parenting requires open communication.

  • It's okay not to have all the answers as a parent.

  • Learning together with your children strengthens bonds.

 

Questions for Reflection:

  1. Which cultural pressures do we feel most as parents right now, and how can we support each other in responding to them with biblical wisdom?

  2. Are there ways we’ve let parenting take priority over our marriage lately? What small changes could help us reconnect more intentionally as a couple?

  3. How do we currently approach discipline and spiritual formation—are we united in our values, and where might we need better alignment or communication?

  4. What habits could we build into our week to stay emotionally and spiritually connected—not just as parents, but as husband and wife?
  5. What specific Scriptures or practices can help you stay rooted as a father (parent)?

 

Quotes from Today’s Episode: 

  • "It's important to show children how to love well."

  • "Creating a strong family foundation is essential."

  • "I want to feel connected to her. I love her."

  • "What we plan for, we can execute."

  • "We can't put our head in the sand."

 

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Jun 3, 2025

In this week’s episode, Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy unpack the powerful topic of expectations—focusing on how to clearly express what you need from your spouse. With honest conversation, a willingness to listen, and an open heart, you can transform how you communicate and connect in your relationship.

 

Quotes from this episode:

“I just thought you knew. And when you didn’t I would go along and get resentful”

“We were trying to fit each other in the mold.” 

“Our first big argument scared the heck out of me. My unrealistic expectation was that we would never fight.” 

“It’s a good idea to have a signal or cue so that you make your spouse aware.” 



Questions for Reflection:

What are some expectations—spoken or unspoken—that we each bring into our marriage, and how well do we feel they’ve been understood by each other?

When was a time we misunderstood one another because expectations weren’t clearly communicated? What can we learn from that moment?

How can we create more space in our relationship for honest, judgment-free conversations about what we each need or hope for?

What’s one expectation we can both express more clearly this week—and how can we support each other in meeting it with love and grace?

 

Mentioned in this Episode:

 

  • When you’re frustrated, it’s easy to let words fly out of your mouth. Our new FREE resource: 17 Unintentionally Disrespectful Phrases To Cut Out When Speaking To Your Spouse will help couples choose words that bring life instead of cause chaos.
  • Awesome Marriage has a great Premarital course to help couples have important conversations before their big day. Communicate expectations effectively and be proactive in learning your future spouse with this great course. Already married? Share this course with a couple who’s looking forward to their big day.

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