This is an Ask Dr. Kim segment on the Awesome Marriage Podcast. People submit their questions about love, relationships, and marriage to Dr. Kim and he answers them.
In this episode Dr. Kim answers the question: As Christians what is okay and not okay to do when it comes to sex in marriage?
Tune in to find out!
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My wife and I been married 17 years and know each other for 20 years and we have 3 children 23, 11 and 9, we have been a christian couple for the last 5 years we got baptized together and it was a life changing experience as we speak, recently In the last 4 or so months our marriage has been in turbulent times, it has been a combination of things we did as non christians along with all these years of marriage that we both snapped one day, or I should say I MOSTLY do snapping on the regular basis and she couldn’t put up with it anymore, during these time I have been invade with thoughts of doubts about her thinking that she is cheating on me even though I know she’s not now, I started to feel insecure suddenly about our relationship about me in particular as husband about everything in my life dragging her down with me and it really sucks, I can’t personally do this anymore and so she, we have been going to marriage counseling through church at renewing life center and my friend is an army chaplain that has put some of his own time aside to help us go through this! Thank God for friends.. I notice when we started going to therapy things were getting a little better even getting some physical intimacy back into our life’s, but then things will fall back to square one, I feel like her now, I’m walking on eggshells around her not wanting to make her mad or start an argument, why is it that after going through our meetings with the therapist things get so uncomfortable around us??? I can feel the tension between us more than ever that it hurst in the soul and it’s not good for neither of us nor the children, I just wish we can leave it all behind and start fresh again it has been an emotional roller coaster ride these past months. I’m in searching mode right now asking everyone that I know for Godly council to fix my marriage I DON’T BELIEVE IN DIVORCE, that’s why I’m asking for your advice with this even thought this is a glimpse of my problem anything would help right now to help us heal-making the path of forgiveness a lot easier!! Thank you for all the information you put out there it’s been a good help in my life right now.
Blessings beyond measures to you
Sincerely
Felix Santos